So does his good friend Rosie.
They visit the terminally ill patients, about half of whom come to the 16-room facility to ease into eternity. Others are there to have their pain and other problems controlled and stabilized so that they can go home to spend their final days. And others check in to give their caregiver kinfolk a break.
The house serves about 700 patients each year.
Rosie is there for all of them. She’s an 8-year-old golden Labrador retriever and a full-time staff member.
“She works for food,” Pickell said.
With her photo ID “volunteer” badge dangling from her collar, Rosie brings friendship and joy to a place that, despite its cleanliness, classy decor and cheerful staff, cannot help but be cloaked in sadness. She makes friends easily and eases their pain in a way some medications cannot.
“She’s a pet therapist,” Pickell said. “She provides emotional support. Elderly people can be forgetful. They don’t remember me, but they’ll remember her. She’ll introduce herself and then go lie down. And while I’m doing my paperwork, she’ll go back and visit.”
Rosie comes from a line of downsized, calm goldens, a gift from a breeder in Escalon, Calif.
“For the first year, I had Rosie on a leash attached to my belt,” he said. “After that, she knew what she had to do.”
Which is to be there to be petted, and to be a distraction for family members there waiting for the inevitable.
“To take the edge off the emotional strain,” he said. “And with the patients, she helps them feel more in touch with nature. A few don’t like dogs, but very few.”
Helen Amarant of Atwater, Calif., and Rosie became fast friends when Helen’s husband, Joe, became a patient.
“I think Rosie liked me instantly,” Helen said. “We’ve always had German shepherds. I never met a dog I didn’t love.”
After her husband passes, she said, “I will still come back and feed her.”
Roxanne Poole, there last week to visit her mom, Shirley Turner, is another Rosie fan.
“She’s sweet,” Roxanne said. “She follows us around.”
Roxanne brings bacon-strip doggie snacks, making her one of Rosie’s favorites, as well.
“My dog’s going to be jealous when I get home, smelling you on me,” she said, talking to Rosie.
Oleta Woodside is a patient at the Hospice House. Oleta is 80 and quick to tell you she once reigned as Modesto, Calif.’s very first Miss Industry “when I was 21 or 22,” which would have been in the early 1950s.
“I represented Modesto to industry,” she said, her eyes suggesting she had drifted back to another era.
She also loves to talk about her 30 years as the Doll Doctor, designing and creating costumes and accessories for antique dolls in her Modesto shop.
“I did over 7,000 restorations,” she said. “For nine years, my sister worked with me, and we both brought our dogs to work every day.”
But now, in the Hospice House, she misses her cat, Marmalade, and dog, Molly, the latter a Maltese breed.
“I would love to bring them in here,” she said. “Molly was a rescue dog.”
Which makes Rosie’s visits so meaningful. She dropped in unannounced on Oleta earlier that morning.
“She got to share a little bit of my breakfast,” Oleta said. “But not too much. We don’t want her getting overweight. She’s a charming, delightful dog. I enjoy her friendship very much.”
A friend, indeed, and just what the doctor ordered.
Here’s a video of another Labrador therapy dog, Winnie. It’s delightful!